Change:

I am a firm believer that when you choose to spend your life with someone, whether that means a committed long-term relationship or marriage, you have to accept that perhaps not everything about that person is perfect.

I have always believed that you take the bad with the good, especially when you love a person.

Why is it that I am always willing to accept those for who they are, but people expect me to change? How is that fair?

If you don't love me for me, just don't love me at all.