Saturday, November 08, 2008

Relationships 101.

Just out of curiosity, even those of you who are not in a relationship, please respond to this.

Think of 5 words. Any five words that you think should embody the idea of a relationship between two people who supposedly love each other.

My five are below.... in no particular order.

1. TRUST
2. COMMITMENT
3. HONOR/ APPRECIATION
4. LOVE
5. COMMUNICATION (this probably being the single most important aspect of any relationship)

It's crazy how you can still be in a relationship with someone, even when these five things just do not exist. It doesn't even have to be a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship--- it could be a simple friendship. Either way. This is me, being very frustrated with life, love, and relationships.

I'm no Carrie Bradshaw, I can't write about love, even when it sucks.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Well, my dear... it's hard to say. Having limited dating repetoire, my working list is rather short.

1. He shall not be psychotic, manipulative, or exhibit characteristics of a stalker or a smothering nature.

That being said, I suppose the following are additional expectations:

Respect and understanding
Trust and loyalty
A willingness to communicate
Humour

The right mix should add up to love, ideally, so I left that off my list.

me said...

i think your five just about sum it up. and you're right, they work with any sort of relationship. i have found this out after way too many years regarding friendships!!